Shutted my heart. SHUT

What is love?

Lame i would say..

The question has been rolling again and agian without an actual answer to it, even till today..

I met so many kinda guys came approach me.. they say they love me.. and i say wat? , i said " oh really? why me? "

and..

i get various of answers .. :-

a) because u're nice person
b) because we chatted well on the net
c) because u are gorgeous
d) because u are slim
e) beacuse u looks so petite, unlike elephant
f) because u have a nice smell.
g) because i seems to knew u since a very long time ago
h) because i just wants u

i) because u're sexy

j) because we getting along in MSN

The above answers are wat i really get in real life =)

not to praise myself or what.. but IT's SUCKS!

hey u , come on.. dont say u love me if u r in below categories :-

a) U're married
b) We never met, and we only chatted a few times in MSN
c) Because u love my LOOKS, hey come on, those are temporarily assets, they will fade one day ok.. love my heart , not my looks!!!!!!
d) To kill your free time
e) Need sex... Oh ya, there's this convenient store in Geylang, go get one.. dont mess me!

well, if u're so self-conscious, that u realise u're in this categories i have mentioned, please get out of all the girls's way.. i believe there's non PROPER girl in this world that love this kinda guyz. *pissed*

Irritated,
Lavenda

Comments

[Netster]

wah your heart talk really super. lol wei add me to your MSN, my email flexichat@hotmail.com

i want to tell you i love you heheh kidding (but am not kidding about adding me to MSN)

hug hug

[Lavenda]

Net net, u so notty.. :( keke.. (kidding) =p trusted u all the way since mIRC ya.. so even added u in MSN, u wouldnt say u love me la ~~.. wanna say ady said years back in mIRC rite.. lalallaa.. (pulling ur leg).. c u there :) take care dude..

[peter]

Dear Lavenda, those sweet-coated words from guys u met, don't tell me u are so naive to take them seriously, i should think u're not as u've put it aptly in opinion mentioned. Now what's love? again from my limited experience, it means, on a broad sense, u're likely to think of the person the first thing u wake up in the morning, in between working routine and b4 falling asleep at night...and of course the above apply to those doing shift as well. This being the first phase of falling in love. One may claim that he loves u, it's ok in that it's far more superior to be loved than not at all...haha may i love u?

[Lavenda]

lol, peter.. u're so cute.. :P love me? hmm.. if i were to let u love me, then im naive d? kakaka.. :)

[ShingYong II]

hey laling,
i m not in the bad category u mention and i didnt give u so lame answer hor~~~ hahahaha..
when da time i love u u still bo ani sui bo ani sexy bla bla bla.. see~~~ i treated u with my true heart noe~~~ hee.. nah, till today i still very respect u. I tak tau hapa kena mengena with u nowadays leh... but keep ur chin up la.. add oil :>

['MaTTheW']

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u have some major issues going on up there girl

['MaTTheW']

actually the answer is simple... "Loving you needs no reason.The question is whether your willing to let me love you and care for you for the rest of your years"

[Lavenda]

=)

[Mr Muharram]

Was on a hunt for a house and accidentally came across to this very saddening, emo stereotype girl who is desperate for attentions.

Anyway, as a guy ... who is trying to be very honest to himself, it is almost impossible to like a girl just because what she is.

I tried, questioning myself the reason to go for a girl and all i can come out with, it's solemly just to get into her pants.

Putting myself as an averagae fucker .. I am pretty sure 98% of guys are these way too.

Seriously, u really looking for a guy who come and confess to u saying that u make him smile and he wants to do the same thing for u .. and have a great memory together ?

It's up to u to believe or not but guys can be really good at words in convincing girls and say what they dont mean it!

Accept the fact that the feelings that u go through is due to the dopamine effect produced by ur pituitary gland to make sure u populate and u will be happy.

Of course knowing a girl similar to u ... I am pretty sure u gonna have a very contradictory believe compared to me saying that I am at the very extreme end and there are guys out there who knows how to love.

being strong is not by convincing urself not to think about it ... but its more towards confronting everything u fear face on !

Doing so would help u to grow up tooo ... Start believing that every actions have reasons behind it .

Have a great day miss lavender !!!